Wednesday, January 30, 2013

fifteen minute fight


If you've had a "fifteen minute fight" with your best friend, you will agree with me when i say its awesome. Had one of these with my friend. All the below happened in exactly fifteen minutes. 

1. Crossed the line in teasing each other. To such a point when things said sound rude but don't really make sense. 

2. Got so angry with each other, walked away in different directions. 

3. Grabbed my laptop and went to a different floor to work from.

4. Two other friends called in for a quick meeting in pantry to solve the issue.

5. Meeting begins. Both scream at each other with words not understood by anyone.

6. Eyes are filled with tears ready to roll down the cheeks. But one stupid funny comment is heard and everyone laughs. 

7. Tease the friends who tried to patch things beyond limits. Make them regret their decision to help.

8. Walk back in the same direction. Making movie plans with less than hundred bucks. Together. 

9. Went back to the floor friend work from. Sat together and watch YouTube videos. 

Now when i'm writing about it, brings a smile on my face. We could have continued our meaningless fight and spent few hours with long face and irritation. But thanks to the stupid comment that saved our time. I don't say it saved our friendship 'cos even if not for the stupid comment, we would still be good friends. Fifteen minutes or thirty day fights cannot break us. We would have spoken to each other after few hours like nothing happened.Thanks to my friends (Beena and Shipo) who arranged the meeting. I know they won't ever do it. Also know they badly wanted me to mention their names here. 

Thanks to Amrita for being my friend and experiencing fifteen minute fight with me.. :-) 

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  2. Hehehaha..cant stop smilling while reading this..n at the same tym feel really bad for Beena n Shipo..coz they thought we broke up or something n wnt even see each others face for the rest of our lives..n yes incase u forgot to mention dat Stupid magical comment.."Y yu went down..Is this my Personal Floor?":))!!...Newayz this 15 mins Fight has only made our Friendship even stronger than before..Thanx Kavya n the peacemakers(Beena n Shipo)..Life would never have been so nice n happening without u ppl around..!!!

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    1. ha ha.. :-) Did we laugh at that comment? Stupid we are.. I'm glad we had this fight this too.. :-)

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  3. Friendship is forever they say.. Very true.
    Very well written and sweet post Kavya..

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  4. Friendship is forever they say.. very true..

    very well written and sweet post Kavya..

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  5. I thought it was fifteen minute flight! LOL! But it was indeed a flight that took off the ground for and landed on the friendship ground within 15mts.

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    1. ha ha.. :-) so true.. Thanks for reading Fayaz.. :-)

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  7. good one and well, absolutely close to reality!! :))

    Akila

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  8. I can very well imagine the scenario, it sounds so stupid on hindsight but at that moment we would be so serious. Real friendship is a bond that can never be broken by petty fights. Nicely put, Kavya. :)

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    1. Yes.. At that moment we would be so horrible.. :-)

      Thanks a lot for reading.. :-)

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  9. Nice one, and the 5th point is the beautiful part. i still remember those and smile...

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  10. I'm very happy for both of you. The fight strengthened your friendship. Kavya and Amrita you both rock :-)

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  11. :) Friendship can be so fun and so tragic at the same time :)

    Have you considered entering the A to Z Challenge April 2013?

    Posts like these would be so perfect.

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  12. Good one, Kavya. Such friendships are hard to come by so I am glad it got sorted quickly.

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    1. Wow.. Thanks a lot Mehroo.. :-) :-) Was about to write a post on Liebster Award! :-)

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  13. Lolz...sometimes fights brings you closer but largely it takes people away somewhat. And when you separate (irrespective of reason incl movement from city etc)we often end up being guilty of losing time with them :) well written post..some pictures would help us laugh more :)
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    1. Ha ha.. :-) Was thinking exactly the same.. wish my friends had taken pictures or a video of our fight.. Will do so next time.. :-)

      Thanks a lot for reading.. :-)

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