We say and do so many things that we are sure to regret in few days or months or years. Yet we do it. Yet we hurt people with our words and actions. Even if at that moment our mind knows we are totally gonna feel bad about it and blame ourselves,We go ahead and do it.
Knowing this about you and understanding is what keeps your relationship, friendship alive with the ones who get this about you. I feel so lucky to have friends and family to know this about me and feel bad when i do and say hurtful things. But this does not mean i can continue to be cranky and hurt them. Their patience with me has taught enough to understand that just 'cos i regret and apologize later, it makes me no better. I'll only feel better when my mind says "don't say or do this. You'll have to apologize later for this" and i listen to myself and take the advice.
Knowing this about you and understanding is what keeps your relationship, friendship alive with the ones who get this about you. I feel so lucky to have friends and family to know this about me and feel bad when i do and say hurtful things. But this does not mean i can continue to be cranky and hurt them. Their patience with me has taught enough to understand that just 'cos i regret and apologize later, it makes me no better. I'll only feel better when my mind says "don't say or do this. You'll have to apologize later for this" and i listen to myself and take the advice.
The best part of having true friends is that they completely understand the way we are and sometimes they can even predict how will we respond to particular situations. Its very thoughtful of you to realize that sometimes your actions may have harmed them and this feeling itself is enough for you to prevent from behaving in such a way in future. But we are human na, and sometimes we do mistakes again absentmindedly, but believe me, your dear ones will be always with you to love and understand you. . Have a great time Kavya. . :)
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Renju
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I agree with you Renju.. Thanks a lot for reading.. :-)
DeleteMy pleasure. .keep writing more. . Take care. .
DeleteNice read.
ReplyDeleteNice read.Set me into thinking.
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Deletein every relationship there r ups n downs,but we always take our frds for granted ..we knw they r d ones who can tolerate us n accept us as we are ...atleast we regret for wht we hv said or done ,but there r many ppl who dont even realise tht they hv been doing it for months or years together ..we hv to control our mind d next time we try to say something ...there will be no reason to regret then na ..?
ReplyDeleteI agree with you Dipti.. :-) Wow.. I think you should start writing a blog.. :-)
DeleteInteresting one... I am sure you will be able to put the last sentence into action at the earliest...! Vagmi & Athe will be praying for this...!!! :-) You are nice to me in the last 6 yrs or so I guess... :-)
ReplyDeleteAnyway, appreciate the thought within... So many may not have realized this... Way to go...
I agree.. Vagmi would be praying for this.. :-)
DeleteThanks for reading.. :-)