Wednesday, March 27, 2013

What next?

When someone hurts you, its horrible. But what's worse is when they are not even aware of this and treat you like nothing's happened. They go on living exactly how they were before and that makes you wonder if you even mattered to them. If we realize that we didn't really matter to them, what's next? Do we have to change the way we treat them? They meant something to you and suddenly changing the way you treat them is not possible. But caring so much for someone who didn't think twice before hurting you is not worth caring for.

So what are we supposed to do?

16 comments:

  1. The fact that you posted this at around 3 or 4 in the morning i guess means that you really value your friendship with the person who hurt you.. give it a bit of time Kavya. I am quite sure that this type of incident happens atleast once in everyone of our lives. Judge yourself first. Are you sure you are not at fault for this? If yes, then wait a while for the other person's reaction. If you indeed feel that he/she is still unconcerned abt ur feelings then you better stop bothering abt him/her. Don't be indifferent to the person, just try to remain unattached. I know its easier said than done.. but that's the point. It helps to be unattached as much as one can and keep the expectations low (although i still believe there is no bigger joy than getting ur expectations fulfilled from a person u are really close to)..

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    1. I agree with you Arnab.. Time heals everything.

      Thanks for your words.. :-)

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  2. Don't think too hard.Let people be like them and let U be just like U. Just saying in general :)

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  3. People who prioritize friendship always get hurt and in return you get to hear comments like.."Stop expecting!"
    They find new people and make them their best buddies, move on and you laugh at your unexpected present after such a blissful past with the same inhuman person.

    How much I can empathize with what you said.. :P

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    1. Exactly.. I hate it when people say don't expect.. That's just not possible.

      Thanks a lot for your words Ashish.. :-)

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  4. Indifference is the key!

    ~ From my experience

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  5. They hurt you to show they are also hurt by some action of yours.keep it simple, dont discuss but just message dem about how you felt and everything will be fine..

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  6. Good friends are always together.. they have no issues with yesterday.. they'll just forget yesterday and think about friendship and tomorrow..

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  7. I say don't think too much and let it go

    PS : Its completely out the blue, but you sound just like Gossip Girl !

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    1. I like Gossip Girl.. :-)

      Thanks for reading..!!!

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